The next time you hear your girls ohhhhhh or ahhhhh (orgasm) in bed, remember that women have this wonderful innate talent of faking an orgasm. A lot of hollywood movies and serials have already shown her flawless skills of faking it. This could be new for men but almost all women reading this would be grinning right now because ‘been there….done that’.
In a new survey commissioned by Cosmopolitan revealed that 67 per cent of the 2,300 of the women surveyed had faked an orgasm with a partner.
The reasons for faking were to spare feelings (28 per cent) but the remainder of women said that it was because they wanted to end the session more quickly (27 per cent).
Some 57 per cent of those surveyed said that they orgasmed most or every time they had sex with a partner while 95 per cent believed that their other half orgasm every time they have intercourse.
Shockingly 72 per cent of women admitted that their partners have climaxed without helping them to finish despite 78 per cent agreeing that they believed their partner cared about pleasuring them. The survey also suggests that when it comes to The Big O women’s pleasure isn’t always a priority.
Women who complained they weren’t orgasming with their partner pointed to a number of reasons from being ‘almost there’ but unable to ‘quite get over the edge’ (50 per cent) to ‘not the right kind’ of stimulation from their partner (35 per cent).
However, when asked how they had they experienced their first orgasm most women said it was down to experimenting rather than with the help of boyfriend/girlfriend.
Reasons for a first climax included masturbation, water jets in the bath and accidental stimulation when making contact with furniture.
Despite the struggles in climaxing with a partner the survey revealed that almost all women surveyed had experienced an orgasm at one point or another.
For 84 per cent of women, they had their first one age between 18 and 24, for 92 per cent, it happened before the age of 29 and 96 per cent of women over the age of 30 had an orgasm.
P.s( For all the men out there…this survey is a reality check so make sure the next time you are ‘at it’ , she doesn’t feel the need to ‘fake it’.