However much you are in love and can’t get enough of each other, yet there is a certain amount of breathing space you need to give each other. There is no quick guide or rule book to the perfect relationship. Yet there are some rules of your relationship that you need to discard immediately. Just in case you are following any of the rules among the 10 rules written below…It’s about time you changed your attitude and let go that rule. The rules are as follows:
- WE ARE A ONE PLUS ONE ALWAYS
No no and a big no!!! you guys are not one with one free scheme. It should never be that your friends can’t meet you individually. You both need your own space and your own different groups of friends too. Feel totally free to move around with your own group of friends too. This space will always and always give you a suffocation free relationship.
2. MY BETTER HALF IS MY BEST FRIEND
Your best friend is a completely different equation to and has no comparison what so ever with your love relationship. No rule book of love ever said that your love relationship will bring happiness only if you both are best friends. Be honest, loyal and in love. Rest everything will follow.
- WE BOTH HAVE THE SAME INTERESTS
Its totally okay to not have the same interests. If he likes soccer and you think soccer sucks, so be it. Just respect each others likes and dislikes and accept them willingly with grace.
- NEVER SLEEP OVER A FIGHT
Once in a blue moon sleeping over a fight can be a good idea because you will end up reflecting on your mistakes all night and the next morning you might realize how silly you can get at times.
- WE DIVIDE WORK EQUALLY AMONG EACH OTHER
Well this can vary from relationship to relationship. It’s totally personal and if her doing the cooking completely suits him and he doing the dishes suits her then be it or maybe he does a lot more house chores than she does. How does that even matter?
- ONCE A WEEK ITS JUST ME AND HIM FOR A CANDLE LIGHT DINNER DATE
Giving “we” time is the best thing you can gift your relationship, but picking out a day every week for a date night can get tough at times. That doesn’t give you a reason to freak out or fight. Even if you two are watching a movie that you both like can be fun and cosy sometimes.
- WE NEVER KEEP SECRETS OR HIDE ANYTHING FROM EACH OTHER
There are somethings that you can’t tell each other and those are usually harmless. Like for instance if your dad commented something unpleasant about your guys dressing sense, that’s something you can afford to not tell. These harmless lies do not mean you are being disloyal in your relationship. It just means that you are saving yourself from the cold war that would follow.
- ONCE WE BREAK UP, GETTING BACK WILL NEVER BE THE SAME
C’mon says who? In fact all the more reason for you to realise that what an idiot you had been to let go off someone you can’t sustain without. Letting go off the past issues and making sure you don’t repeat them again will make you a stronger couple with an unbreakable bond.
- NEVER ASK FOR TIME BECAUSE IF HE/SHE LOVES YOU THEY WILL GIVE TIME THEMSELVES
Why in the world will you not ask for something you want? Your asking will only give more clarity about your needs to your other half making life a lot easier for you two.
- DON’T EVEN THINK OF TALKING ABOUT YOUR EX
We say why not? Talking about how happy you are with your present flame and what you hated the most when you were with your ex is totally harmless in fact a booster for your present relationship. People like hearing about how much better they are than the last person their partner dated.
P.s (These rules totally need to be broken if you want a happy, healthy relationship.)
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