We are women and yes we are allowed to say whatever comes to our mind while we are in a relationship. While most of it is usually acceptable to our guys but there are some things that hit them below the belt… (they have feelings too… wink)
There are 10 odd things that most men hate to hear from their girl and here is the list for the same:
1) “We need to talk…”
You can talk whenever you want. Just start talking. Prefacing like this and then letting him wait for the bad news for hours is just pure torture. Unless you’re one of those terrible people who say “we need to talk” and you just want to talk about how you need to buy a new dress for an upcoming function.
2) “I need some time alone.”
There’s a huge difference between needing a weekend of alone time and needing “time alone.” Alone time just means you want to have your own space and be all by yourself and not see any human. “Time alone” means “let’s take a break.” If that’s what you mean, don’t be polite, just end it humanely.
3) “If you really loved me you would…”
No matter how much he loves you and whatever you will finish that sentence with, this statement is truly ridiculous.
4) “You’ll pay for this, right?”
No! If he wanted to pay for you, he would not let you ask and it would be done.
5) “No don’t, I’ll just get a professional plumber.”
Listen, this one’s a big NO . Unless he doesn’t satisfy his trial and error methods and not give up himself you are not allowed to say that to him. It’s just not the plumber it could be any one.
6) “You’re so smart/hot/cool/etc., but you’re just not that… funny.”
There are few things worse than being told you don’t have a sense of humor. Some guys would even rather be called “ugly” or “stupid” before being told they’re not very funny.
7) “Did you cancel your gym membership?”
Did you just try and call him fat??This one really stings. Even if he’s not a well built big guy, he has a big big ego which you are not supposed to play with!
8) “How many people have you slept with?”
….. and you think he’ll give you the answer for this one?? Never ask this unless you are a doctor. Even if he will answer, you will never ever like it.
9) “Why don’t you want to have sex? Are you not attracted to me?”
No girls not this one please….This is the worst question. Passing on sex once because he’s occupied with work or other stuff, doesn’t mean the spark is gone or you’re not hot. You are the only one he dreams about..and sex?? ahh…. men are forever ready
10) “Tell me about your ex.”
WHYY??? do you ever have to ask this? What if he turns around and says all amazing things about her and wishes that he was still with her! Think how you would react to that then. Until his ex was some celebrity or some serial killer you really don’t have a reason to ask ir know about that.
P.s (We hope these tips are a big help and guide you to build your dream relationship..We wish you luck.)